How Ruhu Works

Ruhu is a discreet network for modern partnerships. It is a vetted network that connects individuals seeking to build families, households, and legacies based on shared values, clear intent, and compatibility rather than just romantic chance.

No. Dating apps are designed for romance, casual encounters, and "swiping." Ruhu is designed for Architecture. We match members based on logistical compatibility (finance, genotype, parenting style, orientation, location) to build stable, long-term legal unions. Think of us less like Tinder, and more like an executive search firm for your life partner.

A Strategic Union is a marriage or domestic partnership founded on agreement rather than emotion. It is ideal for:

• Individuals seeking a dedicated co-parenting partner.
• People who need a stable "social anchor" for career, lifestyle, societal or family reasons.
• People who want to merge economic power (rent, assets) to beat the cost of living.

Once verified, our system reviews your "Intent Indicators" (Location, Genotype, lifestyle preferences, Financial alignment). You will receive a confidential Weekly Brief via email containing potential matches.

Yes. We believe that a stable, two-parent home is the best environment for a child. We match potential co-parents based on compatibility, lifestyle values, and financial planning to ensure a conflict-free upbringing.

If you and a user both select "Connect," Ruhu creates a private email bridge for you to make introductions. For our Private Client tier, a Ruhu Concierge will arrange the first meeting and provide templates for "Partnership Agreements" (discussing finances, living arrangements, etc.) to ensure you are on the same page before you commit.